tion, whether it’s a business, a
household or a team. Everyone
needs to be responsible and
accountable, so where does it
begin?
When you hone and develop
these 12 skills, they will lay a
solid foundation for positive
growth on multiple levels.
1
Set expectations and be
clear.
In any given situa-
tion, it’s important to have
clear goals and expectations for all
parties involved. You have certain
expectations and so does the
other party. For example, as a
sales manager, if your expectations
are for your salespeople to fill out
their call reports, you must learn
to explain and demonstrate in
detail why you need these and
how to do them correctly.
Explain what you look for in
these reports and how their
efforts will benefit all parties
toward growing more sales,
increasing profitability and keep-
ing their sales pipelines full.
Write down your expectations
and review each point with your
team. Do not move forward to
the next step until everyone is
clear and has signed off on their
complete understanding of the
process. It’s more work but worth
it in the long term.
2
Get all of the facts to
avoid unfair accusations.
When there is a mistake
or a problem, before firing off
accusations on who is to blame,
take the time to gather all the
facts. This is critical. Parents
know that issues among siblings
can get tense and when a problem
arises, they need to investigate it
thoroughly and have all the facts
before making a determination
on next steps. The same holds
true in business. Years ago, a
salesperson came to me berating
a supplier. At first blush, it
appeared the supplier had indeed
dropped the ball. However, once
I took the time to gather all of
the paperwork and made the
appropriate calls to ensure I had
all the information, I found out
that the salesperson failed to do
his job on nearly eight of the 10
steps to ensure a successful tran-
sition of the order. The supplier
was proven right and we ate the
order. If our expectations are that
we want to be strategic partners
with our suppliers and hold them
accountable, then it is imperative
we do the same with ourselves.
Getting all the facts before judg-
ment is critical to being respon-
sible and accountable.
3
Be timely.
Nothing can
be worse than bringing
up a problem that hap-
pened weeks ago. When so much
time has passed, it’s difficult to
sift through the issues to under-
stand the problem in full.
Instead, address all issues in a
timely manner. Handling the
issues immediately shows that
you are on top of what’s going
on and you are interested in
addressing things and moving
forward. Issues that lag create
stress for everyone concerned,
but swift, positive action creates
a sense of urgency for your
organization.
4
Show kindness and con-
sideration: the Golden
Rule.
How do you like to
be treated? Most people want to
be dealt with in a kind and pro-
fessional manner. Sometimes we
lose sight of this. I have seen
some managers who feel a need
to be rigid and aggressive in
order to make a statement. This
approach often leads to frustra-
tion because team members are
likely to perceive them as arro-
gant and unapproachable. This is
not to say that you cannot be
firm and direct when a serious
issue arises, but think hard before
you react. Frustration often leads
us to do and say things we would
not have said if the situation
weren’t so tense. Pause before
you react; your intensity should
be consistent with the serious-
ness of the situation.
5
Be consistent and even-
handed; equality
counts.
Not every situa-
tion deserves a harsh reprimand.
The point of consistency is most
important in family-owned
businesses where there are also
employees who are outside of
the family. I have seen organiza-
tions where the owner is some-
times very hard on family mem-
bers and less intensive on out-
siders and vice versa. Balance
and consistency are so impor-
tant because showing favoritism
creates dissention and animosi-
ty—two things you do not need
in any organization or on any
team.
6
Show discretion; coach
privately.
Nothing is
more demoralizing to a
team or staff member than to be
publicly chastised. Give yourself
a few moments to think through
the situation and then take the
person aside and have the discus-
sion privately. This shows respect
for the other person and you will
gain admiration and gratitude in
return, even if the discussion is
tough.
7
Be gracious; commend
for good work and
habits.
More often than
not, giving praise for a job well
done and sending short notes, a
quick email or public affirmation
is better than a $50 bonus.
People like to be appreciated for
their efforts—make sure you do
your part to acknowledge good
work habits. Praising when it’s
warranted also makes it easier
when you have to discuss more
complex, problematic issues later.
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“If our expectations
are that we want
to be strategic
partners with our
suppliers and hold
them accountable,
then it is imperative
we do the same
with ourselves.
Getting all the facts
before judgment is
critical to being
responsible and
accountable.”
MANAGE
MENT